After sharing my internet chat experiences, I feel that we should also learn some soft skills. For instance, married persons can use these soft skills to enhance on relationship and singles can use it to be better prepared for a relationship.
We all have to be responsible for our own actions along with some fun... you know where you stand and limitations. REMEMBER, do not break anyone heart....
Atmosphere can dramatically affect lovemaking. Try different styles of music from classical to jazz to New Age or something with a hard beat. Or put on sounds of waves crashing or other nature sounds.
(A reader submission)
Diana and I have been married almost 29 yrs. We've come up with an activity for couples to get reconnected or increase connection,we call it Skin Therapy. Both of us are self-employed and sometimes both of us having energy for making love is difficult, but we always have it for Skin Therapy. This is how is works, first no expectations for sex, this is intimacy only. We both get in our underwear and cuddle, spoon,whatever position that comfortably connects as much skin as possible.Many times we fall asleep and sometimes nature kicks in. Either way after a busy exhausting day its the only way to unwind. Special side affects this might cause, more intimate conversation, heighten desire for making love later, affirmation of love for each other,plus many others.
